So it's been a while, and I've been coming up with these excuses as to why I don't post that much...
Enough of that I wanted to ask a question. If you think of the future, do you get anxious? Scared? Nervous? Or nothing in general?
As for me, I'm actually terrified of what my future brings. No one would ever know if I've achieved what I wanted in life or simply passing an exam I've studied hard for. But sometimes things never go as planned and you don't always get want you want in life. We have to work hard for what we want even if it gives us a hard time. Complications mean that you're slowly getting there, you may not be at the top but you're slowly reaching it as you do your best. Most of the time, I tell myself to exert a lot of effort and passion in doing the things I love so that it wouldn't be such a burden to myself in the future. Sure, some people may tell you that you're not good enough for this and that but here's some advice, ignore them! Don't let them get to you and just think of the things that make you happy and what you think that will make others happy as well. What's important here is that you remember the people who'll always be there for you and supporting you no matter what. Some may disagree with your decision but just ignore that for now. If you've made the right decision, your "haters" would turn into your supporters. Once they've seen that you've succeeded they would no longer laugh at your face telling you that you're never going to make it. Instead, they'll support you and actually be proud of you because of your hardwork and effort that you've given for yourself. Some people may still dislike you at this point but in the reason that they can't or they don't want to continue what they're doing in order for them to succeed.
Moreover, always have a positive mind towards everything and try not to think of the future too much (like what I do) since it terrifies and scares the hell out of me just by thinking about it. Try to lessen the amount of burdens you have on your shoulders so you wouldn't have a difficult time for yourself in the future.
Thanks for reading, hope you liked it!
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xo, Bianca